Tuesday, October 25, 2005

a liittle bit of a rush but worth it!...


Today i went to my first T- Group meeting/drop in thing and it was pretty good. I nearly didn't make it because of work stuff, I planned to have to whole afternoon off but well, you know how these sorts of things rarely go to plan ( leave work at 12 o'clock? ha! ) so i ended up leaving at 2.30 instead which ment i rushed around trying to get ready and nearly missed to whole thing.

I wasn't entirely sure what to wear, it may sound silly but it was abit of a dilemma for me. In the end i went for something vaguely femaleish in that i wore capri jeans and heeled sandals on my bottom half and a sweater vest under a 3/4 sleeve v neck from hennes on the top half. to be honest i looked abit dishevelled from all the rushing about but i like to think it was dishevelled in a sort of quirky cool way which was the look i was hopeing for!

Actually I'm really glad though that i did make it as it was really useful and i got to meet some very cool new people. Its a weekly meeting so i'll be trying to go on a fairly regular basis i think.
What was great was that the majority of people there seem quite normal ( i know, i know, Mr.pot meet Mr.kettle ) but by this i mean there was no-one who was doing the characiture/stereotype/drag thing which i've heard can be a thing at some of these meetings. Everyone seemed really cool and really friendly as well which was good as part of the reason i went was to start making friends in the trans community in Brighton.

It was all quite informal and afterwards i ended up going to a nice cafe for a drink and something to eat with one of the people i met which was really nice as well.

Its fantastic to be able to talk to someone who has and is going through the same thing as me.
So all in all its a very good thing that i managed to get my arse in gear and make it to this meeting as i think i've made a few new friends and some useful contacts to boot, so once again its hooray me! :) Kisses...

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Afraid to Approach the Makeup Counter? Please Read Jeniffer Burke's Makeup Tutorial Below



Have any of you had trouble at a makeup counter - what did you do about the situation? Has anyone found a great location that is especially helpful with tips and sales? Please share in the comment section.

I’ve been asked about makeup tips by some friends, as none of them could figure out how my lipstick lasted most of the day and didn’t wind up on mugs and silverware. I’m putting it out here because I know there must be a woman who is going through trial and error out there, and she doesn’t have someone to turn to for help because of shyness or shame. This one’s for you!

If you’re interested in some good products, here are some recommendations from me with some ideas on how to handle your lipstick. I could go on and on about makeup, but instead I’ll keep it short and sweet by focusing on one topic.

A caveat before we begin: these recommendations may not all apply if you are still receiving eletrolysis and have the raw upper lip to prove it. Hang in there - it will end eventually.

If you are having trouble with lipstick application, such as having it go on rough (and not lasting at all, no kidding, right?), “bleeding,” or “feathering,” part of the problem is cracked skin, which means you need better moisturizing throughout the day and especially at night. Age can also be a culprit in widening those fine lines, particularly if you have smoked for a time. Technique and products can change that.

After you exfoliate as much as you can (follow the orders from your professional), apply a moisturizer (be careful of chemicals that can aggravate acne, and again follow your professional’s orders before you try anything here). Then apply a concealer over the top of your lip. Foundation tends to be too liquidy and hard to control in this area. Application is key, so unless I can control, I don’t use it. Even something like Bare Escentuals powder foundation won’t help this area in prepping it for color that stays. Concealers and “wrinkle fillers” are basically “pancake base” and/or some combination of fillers and moisturizers, often in a tube shape of some sort for spot fixes, like undereye circles and blemishes. There are also some other interesting products that can give you a smooth canvas that I’ll review below.

This is a very good product to use for your base prep, but pricey:

philosophy unplastic surgery topical wrinkle filler

Perricone offers a similar product for this need. Beware of Perricone converts: they tend to be cultish in their adoration of the product, and hey, it’s for a reason.

N.V. Perricone Pore Refining Concealer

Physicians Formula and Prescriptives also have good concealer products that are cheaper at regular drug stores, some of which have good return policies specifically for cosmetics. DuWop has an item called Reverse Lip Liner that you can use before or after lipliner/lipstick application to “buttress” the color inside your lipline without “feathering.” Mac has two products that could help here: one is lip and lid prep, as the same thing can happen with the crease in your eyelid, and another is Photofinish, which is great alone or with foundation for full-face coverage or area treatment. eBay has some great deals on MAC products, though they are not always guaranteed for purity, and they come in small sizes - worth it if you just want to try, though you could also do that at a MAC counter.

After you prep your base in whatever way works for you, apply lip liner. You’ll know whether to go inside your natural lip line or just outside of it. Clowns are scary, and practice is the only way to get it right. I’ve bought the cheapo Wet ‘n Wild lipliners for $.99. That’s great if you want to try out colors, but they tend to crumble during application, go on unevenly, and look grainy after a half hour. Yeck. The pigments are also not very well-blended, so you get different (often unflattering) color and sparkle effects depending on the light.

MAC’s line of lip pencils/liners is pretty good:

MAC Lip Pencils

I’m also a Clinique fan because of the way the color looks on skin and how long it lasts (same with the eyeliners, FYI):

Clinique Lip-Shaping Pencil

The name “Avon” might bring images of your neighbor peddling to your mom, but it’s decent, quality stuff with fairly good staying power. I personally am still not a fan of the color selection, but if you can find one that works for you or like to blend colors, it could work, especially since it’s reasonably priced:

Avon COLOR TREND Lip Liner

Philosophy is also a good line. I haven’t heard of people with even very sensitive skin having any kind of reaction from their ingredients:

philosophy the supernatural lip pencil

I’ve heard raves about the Shiseido line, though I haven’t tried it myself:

Shiseido Lip Liner Pencil - 11 Mauve-Brown 1g/0.03oz

You can either fill in your lips with the lip pencil, which is what I do, or you can apply lipstick, which will need more reapplications throughout the day.
If you want to apply only pencil, dab in some more color and take a little bit of clear gloss to help swirl the color around your lips with a lip brush. If you want to apply lipstick, forego the gloss and apply the lipstick with a brush.

Either way, you should have a good lip brush to keep color inside the lines and to get an even application. The goal is to blend the lipliner seamlessly into your lip color overall; some people go for the two-toned look, but I’m not one of them. The brush also gets color into fine lines in your lips, so the look is smoother.

Make the investment in a decent brush, and it will last with good cleaning. Don’t go for the cheapest one in the drugstore, if you can avoid it; those bristles break easy and swish in all different directions as you work the color.

H2O Plus Retractable Lip Brush

philosophy tools of the trade lip brush

Some products combine my recommendations in one spot for you:

Shiseido The Makeup Lip Palette 5 Color Lip Palette and Lip Brush

I leave my color matte for the most part. If you want shine on top of your color, go for a gloss that isn’t too gooey and viscous-looking:

MAC LipGlass Lip Gloss

You also might want to try a “lip-plumping” gloss before you apply lipstick/lip liner and after your color application if you need more fullness:

philosophy big mouth lip plump

Avon BEYOND COLOR Plumping Lip Gloss

If this makeup tutorial has helped you, please let me know, and I’ll keep posting on this topic.

Tuesday, October 18, 2005

Transgender Greeting Cards?


There is a delicious website called CDSecretGarden.com. Its run by two wonderful girls. One of the nicest features of the site is the ability to send a Transgendered Greeting card! I think the idea is subtle, caring and just darn clever. To get there just click here. Do let me know what you think and please be sure while you're there to check the entire site out, its just plain lovely! Kisses!!

Monday, October 17, 2005

So many wonderful friends....


I have met some of the most wonderful girls over the last week. I want to thank all of you for your wonderful messages, invitations, friendships and just plain affection. I hope to meet all of you eventually. Kisses and Huggs to all of you!!!!

Friday, October 14, 2005

'Beauty tips' from Audrey Hepburn



For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his/her fingers through it
once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone.
Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms.
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands;
one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others.

Wasn't she just awesome?!!!

General Tips for Crossdressing:

Hope these tips are useful.... kisses!


Applying makeup: Take your time with makeup, don’t rush it. Practice before you go out.

Beard: Shave closely with a cream or gel. Be sure to use a beard cover foundation if you have a visible beard.

Hair: Get rid of unfeminine hair. Use a dipilatory cream on your arms (legs) if theyare hairy. It will last longer than shaving. You can find dipilitory creams in the drugstore. Trim nose and ear hair. Shave any stray hairs on neck. Consider electrolysis or laser hair removal if you are concerned about excessive hair or heavy beard areas.

Skin care: Take good care of your skin to keep it soft. makeup always looks
better on softer, smoother skin, use a facial cleanser, toner and moisturizer. Clay masques are great for firming skin.

Nails: Take time to manicure your nails. If you don’t know much about nail care, have a manicure done from a professional and ask questions.

Brows: Brows are very important to your look. Keep them groomed by plucking stray hairs. If you cannot get away with shaping them into an arch, use browcover and concealing foundation to cover and hide them and draw in your preferred brow.

Moving and holding yourself in a feminine way is important. Watch how women move, walk, and talk as a reference.

Thursday, October 13, 2005

Crossdressing Tg friendly night life



Hi, Just home from an early night at the Cartwheel in New Hope, PA.. The weather was just plain terrible. I originally did not want to venture out in this horrible rain, but two of my closer T-Girlfriends begged me to go. I did meet a couple very cute guys there, so we'll have to see how that develops.

That being said, I found a pretty nice state wide listings of TC/TS/CD/TG friendly clubs, bars and hangouts where gitls like us can dance, laugh and just maybe find our Mr. Right! The list is located at Crystal's Crossdressers Transgendered Resources site.

Click here to be swooshed there.... giggle

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Wigs for the Transgendered...


Lets talk about wigs for a moment. I realize many girls in the Transgendered Community have to rely on some decent hair, if you've been the unlucky receipient of the dreaded "male pattern baldness."

Granted, you've got to have personal confidence - in the first place - to either transition, or just live the lifestyle you've chosen, but one of the easiest ways to get clocked, honestly, is a bad wig.

One of the coolest places I've found to buy exquisite wigs (of ALL kinds) is International Wig.

Besides just being one snazzy site, they've got a super selection. You can even earn free wigs, plus there's a newsletter with money-saving coupons...Just to name a few highlights.

I'm bringing this up because I get a ton of requests for wig info. I hope this helps!

Tuesday, October 11, 2005

I just love.......


If there is one thing you will quickly learn about me is that this girl loves to dress. And, as with any girl, we just love to shop. This being said, be prepared to see my frequent blog snippets where I will share with you all the things I truly love; this will include everything from shoes, skirts, undies, make-up and of course even men and sex! Until tomorrow; Good night!

Transvestite license?......



Have you ever wished we could apply for a T-Girl Drivers License? an actual license we could use for those "girls night out" evenings? Something in the case we might get stopped, and all the officer would say is " thank you girls, have a nice evening" as he hands you back your ID with a sexy smile

Click to get one for yourself!

Giggle... enjoy this one, I sure did!! ...kisssessave

Craigslist Poem: lines, no strings

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Monday, October 10, 2005

Best Definition of Dreams.....

Dreams...

"A train of hallucinatory experiences with a certain degree of coherence, but often confused and bizarre, taking place in the condition of sleep and similar circumstances"

Penguin Dictionary of Psychology.

Sunday, October 09, 2005

"What Marilyn Wants" is now on MSN "My Space"...


I was requested by a girlfriend to set up an MSN profile on "My Space". So Trisha; Here it is and the URL....

http://spaces.msn.com/members/WhatMarilynWants/

They honestly have a nice setup there, but I do still love the YAHOO! 360 format much better. Editing parts of your profile there will require you to use an Internet Explorer browser exclusively.. thats definitely sucks a lemon...

Kisses!,
Marilyn

T-Girl Make-Up Tip Time!!!



It's not easy being a woman. So, to make things a little easier, why not share some of our tips on daily living? I'll start off with six ( of which I cannot claim originality for)

1. Run in your panty hose? Want to stop it before it gets out of control? A dab of clear-colored nail polish on the run should do the trick.

2. To avoid losing your lipstick on your glass (and having to apply and re-apply), discreetly lick the rim of your glass before you take a nip - no lipstick lost on the glass!

3 If you lose your earring back, you can nip the eraser off a pencil and use that to hold the earring in place until you can replace it.

4 Nail polish kept in the fridge keeps better.

5 You can buy sealant for lipstick too that stops it from getting on coffee cups. I don't know if it's available in North America, but you can get it in Britain. I forget what it's called though.

6 And if you lose a fan belt in your car you can replace it with a stocking to get yourself to the nearest garage. OK that one's not really in the theme of things, but oh well..giggle

Saturday, October 08, 2005

What I love......


Some clothes. Some, nice clothes. Where to start...

Shoes: Well, heels, obviously. Red, and a knitted skirt to match. See, I'm tall-ish and although I want the heel to show off my legs and I enjoy the way heels make you walk from the hips, I don't want to be cracking my head in the ladies room.

Stockings (well, some form of hosiery, but there's no point going in half cock, it's all cock or no cock at all) held with garter. I know hold ups are all the rage AND a damn sight easier to wear (esp. With legs are as long as mine), but well... And besides, I love the feel of that thin strap against a shaved thigh. While I'm on the subject, there is no greater sensual feeling than that of sheer stocking on shaved flesh.

Underwear, well, since I'm pretty much naked at present and I don't want to catch a chill... Well, here's the thing, there are two joys about underwear. One is the restrictive aspect, a snugly fittted bone hipster or boyleg that gives you a sexy shape with a nicely sexy push bra, mmmm gives me shortness of breath at the sheer thought. A bra strap across the shoulder and a tight pair of lace panties to complete the feminine curves. Or, alternatively, silk, light, cool, floating silks and satins, like being touched by your favorite lover as you stand, sit, walk then breath. Well, in this case, the former. Good dressing (like make-up) begins with foundation. In this case the curves are needed rather than pure pleasure. Anyhow, who's to say there's no pleasure in dressing up.

The dress (can also be a sexy skirt and blouse, although they're are no bad choices here). Again red, got to match the shoes and lipstick too for that matter. Halter neck, to show off my back. Tight around the body and breasts (hence the underwear) and then flaring out in the skirt, coming to a halt just above the knees.

Hair (long, brown) would be up in a ponytail emanating from the crown, that way I could loosen it and let it down should someone take my eye... mmmmm ya like? tell me what you think! kisses & Huggs!!!!